mom and me versus you and dad

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Collective of wedges in your hand
Bounce together, their tips joined as one
Circle created, their joining done

Break it

Middle mangled, broken
Stripped away to the wrong owners, pieces like tokens
Wedges damaged, misshapen, alone


 

 

 

 

 

Today's reason to talk about divorce again: because fuck you all, sometimes I'm still dealing with it.

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